8 – 12 years (tweens): Parenting programs
This is a stage of parenting that is often overlooked, as most parenting programs cater to children under 8 years or teenagers. However, this is the time your child needs you the most. Suddenly your child is changing in every way – their body, their emotions, even the way they talk and act.
Supporting children during this time is essential in building a loving and trusting relationship. Being there for them, will install confidence that you will support them through anything, no matter how hard the conversations may be.
Parenting Ways is trained is programs that can help you with all areas of parenting to help you on your tween parenting journey. Our tween parenting programs provide reliable, research-based strategies and techniques to raise children and deal with the many challenges.
Deb Woods, the founder of Parenting Ways, is an experienced and accredited facilitator who will help you find the solutions that work best for your family or classroom.
Parenting Ways offers a variety of excellent programs, many of which are not available anywhere else in the South West.
Quick links to courses on this page:
Anxiety Coach
123 Magic & Emotion Coching
Tuning in to Kids® and Dads Tuning in to Kids®
Tuning in to Teens® and Dads Tuning in to Teens®
Bringing Up Great Kids
Bringing up Great Adolescents
Protective Behaviours – Universal Plus
The Incredible Years® School Age Program 6-12 age group
Keeping Kids in Mind – Transform Parenting After Separation
Parenting Different Personalities
‘Me Time’ for Mums – Self Care & Stress Management
Anxiety Coach
What is Anxiety Coaching?
This is a NEW program to the South West of WA and only facilitated by Parenting Ways. By having a greater understanding of the problem of increasing levels of anxiety in children, parents will identify anxiety and counter its progress. As a parent, you will be taught how to help reduce anxiety and build resilience in children aged 4 to 12 years.
The Anxiety Coach program will also teach parents:
- An overview of how a well-honed theory of parenting (what you need to repeatedly do) can assist parents to manage children’s worries
- How some misguided policies are making parents and children more anxious
- The brain, including how the pre-frontal middle cortex and the amygdala operate, and where fear and anxiety originates
- Commonly misused phrases & cognitive distortions used by children & peers
- A helicopter view of what risks we can allow, and which require us to keep children safe
- ‘Traps and trip wires’: what to do when a child’s amygdala starts to play-up
- Memorable strengthening sayings, questioning strategies and mindfulness exercises
How do the Anxiety Coach sessions work?
The program runs for 7.5 hours in total, split over a few sessions, with flexibility in delivery. Importantly, attendance at all sessions required as each week builds from the previous week.
123 Magic & Emotion Coaching
What is 123 Magic & Emotion Coaching?
This is a NEW program to the South West of WA and only facilitated by Parenting Ways. 123 Magic & Emotion Coaching equips parents with discipline techniques and emotion coaching to help parents resolve difficult behaviour in children aged 2 to 12 years. It focuses on teaching children to respond more flexibly when they are frustrated and equips parents with skills to use in specific parenting moments. The program also emphasizes building positive parent-child relationships.
Parents will be taught:
- Identifying and recognising behaviour
- How to sort, stop and start behaviour
- Strategies for encouraging good behaviour
- How to handle challenging and testing behaviour
- How to discipline without yelling, arguing or smacking
- Choosing strategies – the 3 choices model
- Implementing the 1-2-3 Magic® program
- Using emotion coaching to encourage good behaviour
- How to listen empathically to children and encourage resilience
How do 123 Magic & Emotion Coaching sessions work?
The program runs for 7.5 hours in total, split over a few sessions, with flexibility in delivery. Importantly, attendance at all sessions required as each week builds from the previous week.
Tuning in to Kids®
Dads Tuning in to Kids®
What is Tuning in to Kids?
Tuning into Kids will develop parents and carers ability to support your child/children to manage their emotions in a healthy way and equip parents and carers with the skills to support children through the ups and downs of life.
Learning to tune into your kids before the big emotions take over is essential in understanding why your children behave the way they do. Recognising and responding to these early warning signs will make your child feel safe and secure. Research shows that EQ (emotional intelligence) is more important in life than IQ (intelligence quotient).
This evidence-based, emotion-focused group parenting program helps you help children develop emotional intelligence.
Children with higher emotional intelligence:
- make and keep friends easily
- concentrate better at school
- self-regulate their emotions
As a parent, the benefits include:
- awareness of your own emotions
- how to recognise, understand, and manage your children’s emotions
- communicate in meaningful ways with your child
- help your child learn to manage and self-regulate their emotions
- guide your children with behaviour limits
- equip your child with problem solving skills
How do the Tuning in to Kids sessions work?
Due to the program’s success, there are various versions of the Tuning in to Kids course Deb facilitates to target different age groups including a special adaptation just for Dads/male caregivers titled – Dads Tuning in to Kids.
The Tuning in to Kids and Dads Tuning in to Kids programs each run for 10 hours in total, split over a few sessions, with flexibility in delivery.
Tuning in to Teens®
Dads Tuning in to Teens®
What is Tuning in to Teens?
Tuning into Teens will develop parents and carers ability to support your tween/teen to manage their emotions in a healthy way and equip parents and carers with the skills to support them through the ups and downs of life.
This program will equip parents and carers with the skills to support their child/ren through the ups and downs of tween and teen life.
Focusing on Emotional Coaching parents will learn:
- Awareness of your own emotions
- How to recognise, understand and manage your teen’s emotions
- How to communicate in meaningful ways with your teen
- Help your teen learn to manage and self-regulate their emotions
- Guide your teenager with behaviour limits
- Equip your teen with problem solving skills
- Transition from your role as custodian to consultant
How do the Tuning in to Teens sessions work?
Due to the program’s success, Deb facilitates a special adaptation just for Dads/male caregivers titled – Dads Tuning in to Teens.
The Tuning in to Teena and Dads Tuning in to Teens programs each run for 15 hours in total, split over a few sessions, with flexibility in delivery.
Bringing Up Great Kids
What is Bringing Up Great Kids?
Bringing Up Great Kids program is for parents of children aged 2 to 10 years.
Parenting programs like Bringing Up Great Kids (BUGK) offer parents and carers a fresh perspective on relationships with their children. BUGK is an evidence-based program that supports the development of mindful and positive parenting practices. The program gives parents and carers the skills to nurture their children’s wellbeing and build strong family relationships. It is also proven to help reduce parenting stress and improve parenting confidence.
Parenting After Family Violence
Bringing Up Great Kids: Parenting After Family Violence is a reflective program that allows parents to explore their parenting skills and build on their confidence after experiencing family violence. The program can help you to rebuild your life and create a safe and happy home for your children.
Deb creates a safe, respectful and reflective space where you’ll learn to:
- rebuild trust with your children and others as a result of family violence
- reconcile the guilt about domestic violence
- bring a sense of playfulness and fun back into your relationships with others
- interact with support groups who understand your circumstances.
While some prefer one-to-one sessions, others prefer small group sessions. Deb tailors the program to suit your needs and circumstances.
How do the Bringing Up Great Kids sessions work?
Through fun activities and group discussions, Deb delves into the facts and myths on parenting through the years. She looks at family dynamics, gender, position in the family and other critical components of what makes a family unique and how you can support your children as individuals.
Bringing Up Great Kids is designed to be 12 hours in total, split over multiple sessions, with flexibility in delivery.
Bringing Up Great Adolescents
What is Bringing Up Great Adolescents?
Bringing Up Great Kids- Parenting Adolescents program is for parents of children aged 10 to 18 years and offers parents and carers a fresh perspective on relationships with their children during their tween and teen years.
With Deb’s expert guidance, you’ll find yourself equipped with the skills and knowledge to support your teen through this challenging time and emerge as a strong family unit.
Parenting After Family Violence
Bringing Up Great Kids: Parenting After Family Violence is a reflective program that allows parents to explore their parenting skills and build on their confidence after experiencing family violence. The program can help you to rebuild your life and create a safe and happy home for your children.
Deb creates a safe, respectful and reflective space where you’ll learn to:
- rebuild trust with your children and others as a result of family violence
- reconcile the guilt about domestic violence
- bring a sense of playfulness and fun back into your relationships with others
- interact with support groups who understand your circumstances.
While some prefer one-to-one sessions, others prefer small group sessions. Deb tailors the program to suit your needs and circumstances.
How do the Bringing Up Great Adolescents sessions work?
Through fun activities and group discussions, Deb delves into the facts and myths on parenting through the years. She looks at family dynamics, gender, position in the family and other critical components of what makes a family unique and how you can support your children as individuals.
Bringing Up Great Kids – Parenting Adolescents is a 14 hour program in total, split over multiple sessions, with flexibility in delivery.
Protective Behaviours – Universal Plus
Parents, are you worried about how to keep your children safe?
This program is designed for children up to 12 years of age.
These workshops will look at the background of safety, recent research and ways to recognise when Protective Behaviours are needed. Deb will introduce the Stay Safe program and show you fun, interactive ways you can teach your children to:
- identify the signs when things are no longer safe
- think clearly about your options
- take the right action to stay safe
- seek help from your support network
- problem-solve using your support network.
How does the Protect Behaviours session work?
Deb offers separate Protective Behaviours sessions for adults and children.
- Parents:
You’ll learn to support your children and give them the tools they need to problem-solve and stay safe. Not only will they be safer, but they will also have fun learning with Wibbly the Wombat and his friends.
- Children:
With parents, carers or in a childcare setting, Deb takes a fun interactive approach using Wimbly the Wombat from the Stay Safe Program to show children ways to stay safe. Not only will your children love the songs and puppets, but they will also learn how to identify unsafe situations and take the right action to keep safe.
In both adult and children sessions, you’ll learn to:
- identify the signs when things are no longer safe
- think clearly about your options
- take the right action to stay safe
- seek help from your support network
- problem-solve using your support network.
This program is a 4 hour workshop, with flexibility in delivery.
The Incredible Years® School Age Program 6-12 age group
What is The Incredible Years program?
The Incredible Years®, this excellent evidence-based parenting course focuses on strengthening parent-child interactions, nurturing relationships, reducing harsh discipline, and fostering parents’ ability to promote children’s social, emotional, and language development. And with the pre-school and school-age programs, Deb helps parents learn how to encourage school readiness skills.
Parents, teachers and children worldwide have gone through The Incredible Years programs successfully.
How do the Incredible Years sessions work?
This program happens over consecutive weeks from 4 weeks to 16 weeks with flexibility in delivery. However, the specific length varies depending on the parent program’s implementation.
Keeping Kids in Mind (KKIM) – Transform Parenting After Separation
Navigating Parenting After Separation with Confidence and Care
Are you navigating the turbulent waters of parenting post-separation? Keeping Kids in Mind (KKIM) offers a supportive setting where you can learn to nurture your child’s emotional well-being through and beyond the hurdles of separation.
In the KKIM course, you will gain invaluable insights and skills such as:
- Empathy through your child’s eyes: Understand the separation from your child’s perspective to foster empathy and improve communication.
- In-depth understanding and support: Learn how to effectively support your child’s adjustment and emotional well-being after separation.
- Strategies for emotional growth: Equip yourself with tools to aid your child’s emotional development, ensuring they navigate post-separation changes with resilience.
Transform your approach to post-separation parenting with the comprehensive support and expert guidance of Keeping Kids in Mind.
Key features
- Expert-led support: Led by the warm and enigmatic Deb Woods, this programme offers a nurturing environment for shared learning and mutual understanding among parents facing similar challenges.
- Comprehensive support framework: Beyond practical strategies, the programme provides a holistic approach to addressing the emotional and psychological needs of both parents and children during this challenging time.
- Community and connection: Engage with a community of parents who understand your journey, offering mutual support and shared experiences to enrich your learning.
How do the KKIM sessions work?
Designed for parents experiencing conflict after separation, Keeping Kids in Mind spans 5 sessions of 2.5 hours each. Only one person per family can be at each workshop. Importantly, each session builds on the previous, so attending all sessions is crucial for fully understanding and supporting your child’s emotional needs during family separation.
Parenting Different Personalities
What is Parenting Different Personalities?
A new personality profiling tool is taking parents in Australia and New Zealand by storm. The name on many parents’ lips is Personality Dimensions®.
At its core, Personality Dimensions® is about helping parents find ways to tailor their parenting approach based on their child’s unique personality. Whether you’re a new parent looking to learn more about how you can best support your child, or a seasoned parent looking for fresh ideas, Personality Dimensions®has something for everyone.
How do the Personality Dimensions® sessions work?
In a three to four-hour workshop, you will learn about four personality types, what makes them upset, what motivates and inspires them, and their preferred ways of communicating and working.
By recognising and understanding your child’s personality, you’ll be able to build a stronger, more meaningful relationship and respond using techniques tailored to their needs.
With Personality Dimensions training, you’ll significantly enhance your parenting skills and reap the rewards of providing your child with the guidance and support they need to grow into confident, happy young adults.
'Me Time' for Mums - Self Care & Stress Management
What is 'Me Time' for Mums – Self Care & Stress Management?
'Me Time' for Mums is a wellness program for managing stress and anger for Mums or female caregivers.
Becoming a mum brings huge life changes and new responsibilities that impact all aspects of life. Becoming a Mum can transform your physical, mental and emotional health, change relationships, and impact your sense of self. Understandably, this often brings a range of mixed and big emotions for Mum’s.
Have you lost yourself since becoming a Mum?
Are you feeling overwhelmed and having outbursts you later regret?
Do you want to reconnect with your family and start having more fun?
Finding it hard to reach out and ask for help?
If you are looking for support with the above or support as a Mum, we will help you identify where these big emotions are coming from, recognise the early warning signs and know how to ask for help (and get it).
How do the 'Me Time' for Mums – Self Care & Stress Management sessions work?
Deb provides a safe space for Mums and female caregivers to receive extra support. It encourages Mums to take some well-deserved ‘me time’ with other Mums. The program runs for 10 hours in total, split over a few sessions, with flexibility in delivery.
Looking for a parenting program that fits your family?
Deb understands that every family is different, so she offers custom programs to fit your needs.
Get expert one-on-one support and make your parenting journey a rewarding one.
Why parents and carers love Parenting Ways
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